Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Oh Young Love..

During my FB Fast this wk, I have had time to do a little blogging..
I may have mentioned that my Twins are Seniors this year. We are getting ready for Senior Pics and looking for pictures for the baby ad page for year book.
I am having to come up with some kind of message to put with these pictures, so needless to say I have been a bit of a boob bag. How does a mom choose which pictures from the last 17 years, they are all my favorites. Sigh..

AS our summer is coming to an end it has been quite enjoyable and we have experienced some technical difficulties.
It was no secret if you followed us on FB that my son had a girlfriend. Well after some decisions that came to an end. Of course I could be hateful and blast my blog and other social media outlets about my thoughts on how hurt my baby boy was. It was his first young love.  But I told my son not to respond to it on social media and just let is play out. And I was proud of him for doing as I asked. So of course I have to follow the same rules. But honestly I have nothing bad to say. Why, because I still love and care for her. She was a big great part of our family for almost 2 years. I have pictures that I will not delete. I have memories of some good times. And yeah Jazzy and I have actually shed some tears because we miss having her around. 
But I am proud of my son for choosing to be a teen. And not getting so serious so fast.
I have found that many young teens are in such a rush to get so serious, when I have tried to show  my kids they have plenty of time for all that. But now is the time to chase their dreams, and to set goals and reach those goals. Yes I was very young when I got so serious. And yes we are still together. But there have been many tears and heartaches to stay together. The odds were stacked against us. But we came out swinging. And I don’t want that for my children.
Yes I don’t like to see the young ones so heart broken. But I promise each of yall “This too shall Pass” and who knows what the future holds.
Just enjoy life right now, you have plenty of time for all the other stuff. Like AFTER college. heehee 

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